Summer 91
“The Last Taboo”
Gay Search
p. 31
Childhood incest and rape.
75-80% of prostitutes have experienced it.
60-80% of suicide attempts
75% of chronic run-away
44% of drug addicts
70% of prison inmates
75% of anorexics
large % of schizophrenics
“Behind those statistics lies a pool of human misery, of poten
tial blighted, of opportunities lost, of lives destroyed, of
failed relationships and fraught, unhappy parenthood.”
p.48
“Many victims of sexual abuse in childhood…see any physical
contact as sexual.”
“80% of survivors couldn’t enjoy sex. They couldn’t relax.”
Sociopath-antisocial behavior. Disregard for the truth, impul
siveness, unreliability, poor work record, poor judgment, failure
to profit from experience or punishment. Apparent absence of
remorse or guilt. Superficial charm
Characteristics present in survivors
-lack basic trust
-tend. for social isolation
-difficulty in establishing close human relations
-low,self esteem
-poor sense of identity
-feeling of being exploited, abandoned or never listened to
-they seem aware that they were used to solve parental difficul
ties rather than cared for in an age appropriate fashion
-anger or abuser and also toward caretaker who failed to protect
then
-feel trapped
-don’t feel believed-self doubt
-long lasting feeling of helplessness or lack of control of
destiny